“Repeat after me:
I Can,
And I Will”
“Repeat
after me:
I Can,
And I
Will”
Forged in Fire
I didn’t become a man in a workshop. Or on a yoga mat. I became a man in the fire—where responsibility outweighs your excuses and no one’s coming to save you. At 18, I got engaged. A week after my 19th birthday, I got married. By 20, I was a father. And by 27, we had seven kids. We had no money and no plan. Just conviction. While other guys were still figuring out who they were and easing into life, I was already deep in the trenches—with mouths to feed and no option to fail them.There were brutal years. Times we had less than nothing. We eventually took a one-way flight overseas with no one waiting on the other side. No home. No money. No job. No plan. But what we did have was determination.
Risen from the Ashes
Growing up I was the fat kid. The one who knew every excuse. I battled an eating disorder for five years. Hid in big clothes. Laughed too loud. Tried to disappear. At my worst, I couldn’t run for 60 seconds without gasping for 45. My body was breaking, and so was my spirit. So I tore it down and rebuilt. I lost 100 pounds with no pills, no shortcuts, no surgeons—just discipline. I didn’t want a beach body. I wanted armor. A body that could carry my wife and kids through a war. A mind that wouldn’t break. A life that demanded respect.
I’ve studied premed. Worked in hospitals. Helped launch a mobile IV business with 80 nurses. I’ve sat at the table with doctors and carried stretchers beside Marines in 12-hour rucks. I’ve built gyms, private coaching programs, and custom apps. I’ve led retreats, breathwork sessions, meditations, public talks. I’ve done what men do when there’s no time for doubt—we move. We build. We lead.
Risen from the Ashes
Growing up I was the fat kid. The one who knew every excuse. I battled an eating disorder for five years. Hid in big clothes. Laughed too loud. Tried to disappear. At my worst, I couldn’t run for 60 seconds without gasping for 45. My body was breaking, and so was my spirit. So I tore it down and rebuilt. I lost 100 pounds with no pills, no shortcuts, no surgeons—just discipline. I didn’t want a beach body. I wanted armor. A body that could carry my wife and kids through a war. A mind that wouldn’t break. A life that demanded respect.
I’ve studied premed. Worked in hospitals. Helped launch a mobile IV business with 80 nurses. I’ve sat at the table with doctors and carried stretchers beside Marines in 12-hour rucks. I’ve built gyms, private coaching programs, and custom apps. I’ve led retreats, breathwork sessions, meditations, public talks. I’ve done what men do when there’s no time for doubt—we move. We build. We lead.
Building the Mountain
But the real story isn’t about business or bodies. It’s about what happens when you decide enough is enough. When you stop shrinking from your potential and start taking up the space you were born to own.
I built ALPHADAD for that man. The one who’s stuck in a cycle he can’t name but feels in his gut. The one who’s tired of soft culture and fake confidence. The one who knows he was built for more—but needs someone to drag it out of him and hand it back like a weapon.
ALPHADAD isn’t just a program. It’s a mountain. And every man who climbs it becomes something else entirely. Stronger. Clearer. Realer. I’m not here to whisper affirmations into your ear. I’m here to hand you the tools to become the man your family needs, the one your sons will want to grow into, and your daughters will never question. This isn’t motivation. It’s mission.
And if you’re ready—then let’s get to work.
Building the Mountain
But the real story isn’t about business or bodies. It’s about what happens when you decide enough is enough. When you stop shrinking from your potential and start taking up the space you were born to own.
I built ALPHADAD for that man. The one who’s stuck in a cycle he can’t name but feels in his gut. The one who’s tired of soft culture and fake confidence. The one who knows he was built for more—but needs someone to drag it out of him and hand it back like a weapon.
ALPHADAD isn’t just a program. It’s a mountain. And every man who climbs it becomes something else entirely. Stronger. Clearer. Realer. I’m not here to whisper affirmations into your ear. I’m here to hand you the tools to become the man your family needs, the one your sons will want to grow into, and your daughters will never question. This isn’t motivation. It’s mission.
And if you’re ready—then let’s get to work.